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11.25.2004
Thanskgiving again, and that means a light posting
weekend. To tide you over while you're waiting for the pies to
cool, here's my entry in the ancient blogger tradition of listing
things I'm thankful for this holiday season.
1. I am thankful beyond words for my girlfriend. She's
bright, kind, beautiful, curious and dedicated, and she has meant an
unbelievable lot to me. I try every day to justify the love and
trust she has shown me, and I measure every minute until I see her
again. Thanks, Shauna.
2. I am thankful every day for my roommate. It seems she
has always been my friend -- I can barely remember a time when she
wasn't there for me -- and she's stayed that way through huge amounts
of difficulties and trials. I know that whatever the future holds
she will always be the dearest of friends. Thanks, Cori.
3. I am immeasurably thankful for my friends. Since my
relationship with my extended family is essentially non-existent, my
friends form for me the safety net, support system and social network
that most people get from their families, and I am incredibly fortunate
to know so many intelligent, interesting and caring people.
Thanks to, among others, Doug, Andrea, Kate, Allison, Claire, Steve,
Michael, Anaheed, Rob, Robyn, Jeff, and, especially, Lara.
4. I am thankful and very grateful for my parents. My
mother couldn't have children of her own, and I was adopted -- many
people look at this as second-rate, as a disadvantage, but I have
always thought of it this way: I was well and truly wanted. My parents and I are
extremely different people, and times have very often been trying for
us, but I will always love them for who they are. Thanks, Al
& Dorothy.
5. I am thankful, in a professional and personal sense, for my
editors. As a writer I am not always the easiest person to deal
with, and no doubt my idiosyncratic stubborness helps account for why I
don't make a living at this, but I always strive to be efficient and
professional, and I am lucky enough to have a handful of editors that
are a delight to work with. Thanks to Jennifer, Gary, Hayden,
Elizabeth, and Kevin.
6. I am thankful for a number of people I consider very close
friends even though I may have only met them a few times, or even never
met them at all. Through the auspices of the internet, I have
forged communities of people who have graced me with their kindness and
good humor, tolerated me in bad times, congratulated me in good times,
and been just as true and real in their friendships as anyone I've
known in the 'real world'. There are still those who denigrate
the internet as a means of forging relationships, but all I can say is
that through it, I have advanced my career, become more informed and
mature, met many good friends and seen them fall in love and marry, and
met the woman I want to be with forever. Thanks, among others, to
Jennifer, Leigh, Brent, Jason, Brian, Jane, Christian, Christina,
Manning, Tami, Jon, Kate, Nate, Nick, Yuri, Kevin, Cheryl, Liz, Meenoo,
Dave, Dora, Elizabeth, Andie, Bill, Andy, Rob, Tim, Maud, Whitney,
Denise, Neal, Chris, Matt, Cindy, Kim, Austin, Mark, R.J., Shannon,
Josh, & Julie.
7. And, of course, I am happy for you, the reader. Anyone
who bothers to check on this site daily has my sincere and profound
appreciation. It's not evident most of the time, I know, but I
put a lot of work into the Ludic Log, and each pair of eyes it attracts
has my deepest gratitude. Thanks, all six of you, and happy
Thanksgiving!
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